I wake early in the morning and ask "Where do You want me to go today?" Usually, God answers and I start writing, not knowing where it will take me. Then I send the writing to anyone who might casually ask. That is the way of the world.
I'm in process - figuring out that every relationship is perfect just as it is showing up. It's up to me to decide how I want to respond to what I seem to be perceiving. Change my perception / change my world!